Finding My Way

Sorry for being away so long, but life's been on a roller coaster this year. You might know that my Mum came to share our home four years ago when, aged 88, life alone became too difficult.

Gradually she became more frail and, following a nasty infection in June 2015, she needed help with most everyday tasks. Finally, after a couple of months being bedbound, she passed peacefully away at the beginning of September, a week after her 92nd birthday.

Happy 92nd birthday, Mum

I find myself left with a mixture of emotions - thankful that she was able to die at home, when she was ready, and without protracted illness or pain but, on the other hand, her passing has hit me more than I expected, and I get days of melancholy (like today) when the tears keep coming, and I feel very fragile.

A couple of months before Mum died, we also unexpectedly lost our precious Cleo, all too soon (aged 9 and only with us from the Dogs' Trust for a year)

Cleo

Thankfully, we still have Basil, who came as a 'package' with Cleo and he is a joy, keeping us on our toes, and entertained

"It wasn't me, Mum - honest!"

 Apologies if this all sounds maudlin, but posting this feels very cathartic, and I hope that you will forgive me for wearing my heart on my sleeve. I now feel ready to re-enter Blogland, and look forward to sharing more positive snippets from our Flutterby nest over the coming days.

Crafting (along with my faith, loving family and good friends) has been a life/sanity saver over the past months, and it's good to have this to focus on, as I try to find who and what I am, again.

Blessings for now, Chris xx

Weekend Overtime

Hi folks - Bernard here

You'll be amazed at how much Eric and I (with some help from Chris) have managed to get done on our house this weekend.

First we added the window hinges. We cut a toothpaste tube into strips, covered them with masking tape and painted them black. Chris didn't trust us with the superglue, so she stuck them to the frames,

stuck the frames in place, and taped them to dry.

This is me, hard at work, adding the catches. We put gold paper clips into the trunk, superglued a length of gold wire to the opening frame, and finished off with leaf peel-offs 'rescued' from Chris's stash.

Me, with the supplies.

Once the windows were finished, we starting landscaping the outside, using plastic leaves and flowers inherited from Chris's Aunt Nell. We went on to rebuild the front entrance, ready for the door to be fitted.

That's about it for now, so I'm off for a soak in the bath to ease my joints, while Eric wants to finish off in the garden, making the most of the light evening, and Chris puts Grandma to bed.

Catch up with you soon, lots of love and have a great week, Bernard xx

Eric's Update

Hi - there's not a lot been happening, this past week, while KP has been on school holiday. Chris has been far too busy to help two homeless gnomes, so Bernard and I have soldiered on alone, as best we could.

Once the window frames were in place, the tree trunk got several coats of paint (this was the first, dark brown one). Chris looked in and said it wasn't quite right - cheek! But she made up for her rudeness by saying she'll lend a hand once the boss is back at work this week.

Without her assistance we went ahead and mixed the egg box pulp and laid a green moss upstairs floor.

It's not as smooth as we'd have liked, but hey - we're only little guys.

We've had a very nutty weekend, with KP and Chris donating their coconut ice cream shells to the cause - Bernard wants a boat but I think we should stick with the basics, and have a bath tub - maybe we'll decide on both.

Chris's friend Dot came up trumps and brought round a few hazelnut shell halves, which will give us a hanging basket and a couple of bowls for the kitchen. It's quite tough, being eco friendly, relying totally on stuff that would otherwise would be recycled. Everything takes a lot longer 

and we can't use things like this beauties, tiny mushrooms that Dot donated. They will probably be allowed for Fern's mushroom house, when we get round to that.

Bernard and I also plastered the downstairs ceiling, and will paint it tomorrow, and start installing the glazed window frames. Chris will trial the toothpaste tube hinges she's been playing with. If they're successful, she's promised me a big trunk to keep my clothes in.

Anyway, today (being Sunday) is a day of well-earned rest for B and me, so I'll get back to chilling, and let you know later in the week how things are going.

Love for now, Eric xx

WOYWW - My Little Obsession

A few months ago, my flutterby brain took me off in an entirely new direction - dolls houses and miniatures. I'd always loved the idea of them, but then a friend gave me a kit she didn't want, and I was hooked.

Welcome to Thimble Cottage (4" tall, 1:48 scale). Kits like this are flat pack, made of balsa type wood or cardboard, for you to assemble and decorate. I made the thatch from an old paint brush, the plants are tissue paper and florists' wire, the bean poles - cocktail sticks, grass - crumbled oasis, veg beds - match sticks and the soil, tea bag innards.

Having got such a kick from improvising with stuff I found round the house, I decided to go the whole hog, and used a rusty garden ornament for the next one, Lantern House. The chair is made of card, the curtains, carpet and portraits made from bits in my stash.

I then discovered the wonderfully talented Sharon Ojala at her 'Homemade Obsessions' blog. It was love at first sight, and I made my first needle-felted figure. Meet Eric ...

Eric and his adventures have really taken hold of my little world. He likes to be known as 'Eric, Eco Warrior' and is insisting that everything he has is made from recycled materials. Right now, I'm helping him build a tree stump home, and you can follow our progress, and his other antics, at his own Facebook Page, 'Away with the Faeries'.

This is the pine cone roof we finished a few days ago

just before painting the inside of the stump (this is the view through the French windows to the front door) and you can just see his bedroom porthole window at the top (no floor/ceiling in yet).

I hope to be able to share more progress next Wednesday. In the meantime, you could follow him on Fb. I hope to catch up with as many of you as I can, via Julia's network (see WOYWW button on side bar, click and be amazed!)

Love and best wishes, Chris and Eric xx

WOYWW 362 - The Flutterby Returns

Hi folks - I'm back with a vengeance - three posts in as many hours, after a year's absence 😊!

If you want a quick skim over the year's happenings, look through the previous two (short) posts. Otherwise, I'll just show stuff I've been busy with, since we last met.

Lots of ...

KNITTING

Home-made Dorset buttons

for a new cardigan (actually navy blue!?)

A couple of pairs of socks

One quarter of a finished baby blanket

A WIP shawl for me

CROCHET

A couple of baby blankets

This Mum asked for earthy tones

A C2C (corner to corner) pressie

Then there was a lovely pattern from Sandra (Cherry Heart)

with enough spare yarn for this pretty, finished with a bobble edging

Then, in true flutterby fashion, it was on to some shabby chic decoupage, with a pretty shade I found online

I'd better stop there for now, hoping that Julia will forgive me for a ridiculously long post, though it is almost all pictures. I promise, though, Mrs D, that this is the first and last time I'll do this, and I'll save my current flutterby obsession/interest until next Wednesday. Lots of love to you all, and I hope to visit you over the next few days.

Chris xx

PS For the one or two on the planet who don't know about WOYWW, hop over to Julia's place (via my side button) and prepare to be amazed x

A Year in One Post

A quick recap of the past year - Mum (92) has become increasingly frail over the year, following a serious illness last summer. Although she rallied, and can feed herself and walk with a frame, I have to do everything else for her now. It's been a steep learning curve for both of us, but she copes with the indignities very well. One HUGE upside to being housebound for much of the time is that I get lots of crafting time, for things that can be picked up/put down quickly - so, knitting, crochet, even dolls house making (my latest obsession) help tremendously.

One sad event of last year was that we lost our cat, Rosie, last Spring. She was 18, her whole body started to fail, and it took DH and I a long time to adjust to losing her. However ... last August we bit the bullet and found two new friends, via the Dogs Trust. Meet Cleo (10yrs) ...

and Basil, aged 6

They've apparently always been together, and seem like they've always been here.

That's enough of the personal stuff. I'll do a crafty catch up in a THIRD post of the day, for WOYWW - talk about one extreme to another!!!

Bye for now, Chris xx

Guess Who?!

Hi there - sorry to have been MIA for over a year!!! Life events and an impossible new PC got in the way, and I'm only just at the stage of pulling up my big girl pants and getting on with it.  When DH gets time, I'll ask him to show me how to upload pictures from Facebook, and hopefully give you a quick catch up. There's been lots of crafty stuff going on.

I started a new Facebook page today - Away with the Faeries - where I'll post short snippets of new crafty stuff, as opposed to the more personal drivel on my usual page. There's not much there yet, but I will update regularly, if you'd like to follow it. I hope you can find it.

I'm not sure how to move on with this blog - much depends on how I cope with the new blanket-blank PC. Right now, it's doing my head in and I want to throw it through the nearest window!!! But I used to enjoy waffling on about life here, and would like to return to that.

Love for now, and if you leave me a message, I'll get back to you. Chris xx